One day you're obsessed, next day you need 'space'
Monday: you're writing love poems and planning matching tattoos. Wednesday: you need space, you're not sure about this, maybe you should be single. Friday: nope, you love them, false alarm. Your partner has emotional whiplash and honestly? So do you. You're not playing games — your feelings are GENUINELY that volatile. One day the relationship feels like the best thing ever, the next it feels suffocating. The push-pull isn't strategy, it's survival. You get close, it feels vulnerable, you retreat. They give you space, it feels like abandonment, you rush back. It's exhausting for everyone involved, especially you. The right person will be patient enough to stay while you figure out that love doesn't have to feel like a crisis.
Get your read — free on iPhoneyou push and pull because staying feels terrifying and leaving feels worse. so you do both. constantly.