Now you see me... actually no you don't.
Your toxic trait is vanishing. You don't ghost because you're cruel — you ghost because feelings are overwhelming and disappearing is easier than dealing. You've left conversations on read for so long that people assumed you died. You haven't. You're just on the couch watching Netflix pretending the outside world doesn't exist. Your DMs are a graveyard of unanswered messages and you feel guilty about every single one. But not guilty enough to reply.
Get your read — free on iPhoneyou don't disappear because you don't care. you disappear because caring requires a follow-through that terrifies you.