You do everything for everyone and quietly resent that no one does the same.
You organize. You remember. You check in, follow up, send the link, make the reservation, hold the emotional weight, notice when something is off before anyone else does. You are indispensable — and you know it — and part of you is exhausted and a little bitter about it. You do more than your share not just out of love but because you don't fully trust anyone else to do it. Letting go feels like things falling apart. The real question isn't whether you're a good friend; you obviously are. The question is whether you're letting anyone actually be one to you.
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