You're great at the good parts. The hard parts are harder to find you for.
The Eye doesn't grade on intention. And here's what it sees: you show up for the good stuff — the celebrations, the easy hangs, the moments when everyone's happy. When things get heavy, you get busy. It's not that you're a bad person; it's that real friendship has a cost you haven't been willing to pay consistently. Your friends have noticed, even if they haven't said it. Some of them have quietly stopped telling you the hard things. That's the read. What you do with it is up to you.
Get your read — free on iPhoneyou're there for the celebrations. when the crisis hits, you remember you had something else going on.