Every group has one. You're it.
Your friendship runs on energy and presence — and that's a real thing. You make people feel good, plans happen because of you, and no one in the group laughs the way they do when you're around. What you're less practiced at is staying when the vibe is gone. The hard conversation, the crisis mode, the friend who needs someone to just sit in the difficulty with them — those moments tend to find you somewhere else. Your friends who've needed that from you know this. Some of them have quietly filed you under 'good time' and stopped reaching for more. That's worth noticing — not because you're a bad friend, but because you might be a shallower one than you think.
Get your read — free on iPhoneyou make the night. but when the night ends and someone needs something harder, you get quieter. and part of you notices.