Lazy people trigger you. Bare minimum is not a flex.
Your ick type is EFFORT — specifically, the lack of it. Nothing turns you off faster than someone who doesn't TRY. One-word texts? Ick. No date plan? Ick. Forgot your birthday? CRIMINAL ick. You don't need grand gestures — you need someone who shows up, puts in work, and doesn't treat your time like it's disposable. Your standards aren't high. They're FAIR. You just want someone who meets you where you are instead of making you do all the heavy lifting. You can tolerate a lot of things — but laziness? Nah. You've seen what effort looks like, and you refuse to settle for someone who thinks "I'm here, aren't I?" is enough.
Get your read — free on iPhonelow effort disgusts you because you give 110% to everything and watching someone give 30% feels like a personal insult.