People land on you when everything else is turbulent.
Something about you makes people exhale. Not because you perform calm or try to be the stable one — but because you actually are. People tell you things they haven't told anyone. They text you first when something goes wrong. They sit next to you on the bus. You're not doing a bit. You're just genuinely, structurally safe. The cost of this is that you absorb a lot. You are the landing spot for everyone's turbulence, and the Eye noticed that nobody always checks if the harbor is okay. But the signal the Eye caught? You keep the light on anyway.
Get your read — free on iPhonepeople don't have to explain themselves around you. they just arrive. and somehow that's enough.