You're the reason the situation stayed a situation and didn't become an incident.
You are not emotionless. You're just not theatrical. When something goes wrong, you don't add a second layer of chaos on top of the first one. You don't send the paragraph. You don't rope in everyone else. You don't make it about you when it isn't. People who've been through something stressful with you have noticed: you make hard things survivable just by not making them harder. The Eye's read: 'low drama' sounds like a small thing until you've been in a relationship with someone who is not. Then it becomes the main thing.
Get your read — free on iPhoneyou don't add to the pile. in most people's lives, that makes you an anomaly.