You said 'not looking for anything serious' but here we are. Crying.
You downloaded the app "just to see what's out there" and you've been "just seeing" for two years. You keep it light, keep it fun, keep it casual. Your bio says "not looking for anything serious" and you MEAN it. Until you don't. Because every few months someone sneaks past your walls and suddenly you're catching feelings you swore you were immune to. Then it gets messy because you built the whole thing on a foundation of "this is casual" and now someone's crying in a Uber and it's you. You're not actually commitment-phobic. You're just terrified of admitting you want something real because what if you say it out loud and the universe doesn't deliver?
Get your read — free on iPhoneyou say you're keeping it casual because naming what you actually want makes it real. and real can be taken away.