200 matches. 0 conversations. It's a collection at this point.
Your match list is a MUSEUM. Hundreds of people who swiped right on you, organized by date, never to be spoken to. You open the app, feel a brief serotonin hit from matching, then close it immediately. You'll get around to messaging them. Eventually. (You won't.) It's not that you don't want to date — it's that the GAP between wanting to date and actually doing the work of dating is approximately the Grand Canyon. You hoard matches like emotional insurance. "I COULD talk to someone if I wanted to." But you don't. The app is just Candy Crush at this point. A game with no purpose except to pass time and avoid confronting why you're actually on here.
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