Why text when you can send a 4-minute voice note?
Typing is for people with small feelings. YOUR feelings need VOLUME. Tone. Emphasis. The occasional dramatic pause. That's why God invented the voice note — so you could monologue at your partner while pacing around your apartment like a TED Talk speaker with abandonment issues. Your voice notes start with 'okay so basically' and end 7 minutes later with '...anyway that's how I feel.' People either love this about you or they live in fear of the red play button. You process in real time, out loud, with zero filter. The beauty is your authenticity. The chaos is that you sometimes figure out you were wrong DURING the voice note and have to send a follow-up note correcting the first note. Your partner needs good earbuds and patience.
Get your read — free on iPhoneyou talk because the silence terrifies you. if you stop narrating your feelings they might disappear and then what?