You control the aux, therefore the mood, therefore everything.
Whoever controls the aux controls the room — and the aux has belonged to you since before anyone agreed to it. The Eye sees what you actually are under the headphones: the group's emotional thermostat. You read the collective mood like a setlist and adjust it in real time — the exact song for the pre-match nerves, the perfectly timed meme that breaks the silence after bad news, the playlist that somehow says the thing nobody could. This is care, and the Eye wants that named clearly, because people file you under 'fun' and miss that you're doing emotional labor with a beat behind it. You manage the room's feelings so attentively, so constantly, that an interesting gap has opened up — quick check: when did anyone last manage YOURS? You've made yourself the weather system of every group you love, and weather systems don't get asked how they're doing. The Eye is asking. Right now, actually. How are you?
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