Order is how you say you care.
Somebody has to hold the whole thing together, and you decided it's you. Rules, systems, contingency plans for the contingency plans — control is your love language and your cage. You'd rather be feared and right than liked and sorry. The Eye's note: the collapse you're preventing already happened. You're allowed to put it down.
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