Late on purpose, guarded underneath.
You lost people before you learned how to talk about losing people, so you built a personality out of easy detachment — a joke, a shrug, a door that opens ten minutes after everyone else's. Showing up late is the one form of control you have left. You pour real effort into the people you mentor and almost none into the grief you never processed yourself. The Eye sees past the calm: you're not casual. You're managing a weight nobody's allowed to watch you carry.
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