You take the shape of the room.
You take the shape of whoever you're standing next to — not because you're weak, but because you've read the room before you've finished walking into it. You can be the calm one, the funny one, the fixer, and mean all of them. You've ended an argument by quietly agreeing and then getting exactly what you wanted anyway. The Eye sees the current under the still surface: adapting isn't the same as having no shape of your own.
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