Fixes everyone. Forgets to fix self.
You are the emotionally intelligent one. You ask the deep questions, you hold space, you understand attachment theory and you USE it. Your partner feels seen, heard, and emotionally safe with you. You're basically a licensed counselor who works for free. The problem? You pour so much into understanding THEM that you forget to be understood yourself. You fix their trauma while yours sits in the corner collecting dust. You deserve someone who asks YOU how you're doing. Not just someone who benefits from your emotional labor.
Get your read — free on iPhoneyou fix your partner because fixing yourself feels impossible. and as long as they need you, you never have to face that.