Everyone starts with full access. You'd rather get burned occasionally than wall up the people who'd never hurt you.
You hand people the keys before they ask. New friend? Full access. Stranger online at 2am? Here's a secret you've never told anyone offline. You're not naive — you've done the math and decided that the cost of an occasional betrayal is worth never making a good person prove themselves. The risk is real: you've given the master key to people who only deserved the guest room, and you've called it 'just being open.' Sometimes trust isn't generosity, it's a door you forgot you left unlocked.
Get your read — free on iPhoneyou hand people the keys before they ask. it's not naivety — you decided long ago that an occasional betrayal beats making good people audition.