You assemble the proof afterwards, and the proof is always excellent.
You can tell the story of how you met and it is a genuinely good story — the near-miss, the coincidence, the fact that you almost did not go that night. Everyone at the table agrees it is remarkable. The Eye notices when the story got assembled, which was afterwards: the coincidences were unremarkable while they were happening, and they became meaningful retroactively, once you had already decided to stay. This is not dishonest. It is how humans work. But you use the story as a load-bearing argument in hard weeks — look how it started, that has to mean something — and a narrative you built yourself is a poor witness to call when you are trying to work out whether to stay.
Get your read — free on iPhoneIn a hard week, argue for staying without mentioning how it began. If there is nothing to say, the story has been doing work the relationship should be doing.
you assembled the proof after you decided to stay, and now you call it as a witness whenever staying gets hard.
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