You approach romance the way architects approach buildings — with blueprints.
You have opinions about compatibility before the first date. You notice green flags the way a contractor checks load-bearing walls. You're not unromantic — you're romance with a project plan. Falling for you is a deliberate process: you assess, you build slowly, you check your work. The result, when it works, is something solid. The risk is that you sometimes optimize the feeling out of it — or fall for the idea of someone while the actual person stands right there waiting to be noticed. Love resists being optimized — and the Eye has noticed that the moments you remember aren't the ones you planned.
Get your read — free on iPhoneyou plan love because unplanned love has surprised you in ways you're still recovering from. the project isn't cold — it's self-protection wearing blueprints.