Without you, the group chat is just a bunch of people with good intentions.
You are the one who actually makes things happen. You send the 'okay so when are we doing this' message that everyone was too scared to send. You create the poll, pick the restaurant, share the calendar invite nobody asked for. The chat would still be saying 'we should hang soon' in six months if it weren't for you. That's not annoying — that's the entire reason this friend group has memories instead of just vibes.
Get your read — free on iPhoneyou send the 'okay but when tho' message because if you don't, nobody will. and the one time you didn't, nothing happened. you never forgot that.