Order above all. Friends optional.
The rule is the rule. Not because you love rules — the Eye checked — but because you've seen what happens to rooms where the line moves for whoever complains loudest, and you'd rather be resented than live in that room. You're the one who enforced the fantasy league constitution at the family dinner, who called the foul on your own best friend, who said 'we agreed on this' into a silence that cost you an invitation. People read you as rigid. The Eye reads the blueprint underneath: you believe consistency IS kindness — that a line which moves for friends isn't mercy, it's a caste system with extra steps, and the people with the least pull always pay for everyone else's exceptions. So you hold it. For everyone, including yourself, which is the part your critics always skip. The toll is real and you've paid it in invitations: guardians of the line eat alone more often than the line ever thanks them.
Get your read — free on iPhoneyou'd rather be resented than live in a room where the line moves for whoever complains loudest. the eye counted what that's cost you in invitations.