If you help enough people, maybe you won't have to think about your own stuff.
When things get hard for you, you redirect toward everyone else. You check in on your friends. You volunteer for the extra shift. You make yourself indispensable. Being needed is something you can control when everything else feels like it's slipping. It's not fake — you genuinely care. But there's also something in the caring that lets you sidestep the harder question of what YOU need right now. The Eye sees the love you pour out. It also sees the part you're routing around.
Get your read — free on iPhoneyou take care of everyone around you when things get hard. the thing you're avoiding is the question of who takes care of you.