You contribute. Mostly through avoidance.
You're not a villain but you're not innocent either. Your relationship issues come from what you DON'T do — the conversations you avoid, the feelings you don't express, the effort you quietly withdraw when things get uncomfortable. You're the person who says "I'm fine" when you're absolutely not fine, then resents your partner for not reading your mind. You're not toxic. You're just... low-key making things harder by not showing up fully. The good news? This is the most fixable category. You're 70% there. The other 30% just requires you to actually open your mouth and say what you need.
Get your read — free on iPhoneyou're not destructive, you're just absent. and absence in love does more damage than you're ready to hear.